Time to get inspired!

Two days ago, I celebrated my blog’s one-year birthday. How about that? It caught me by surprise when I looked at the date on the calendar and realized how quickly that had come around. Kinda scary.

A whole year. 75 posts. Untold support and encouragement from so many people. And lots of learning on my part (with much more to go, of course).

So, onward.

Since my post last week when I spoke to feeling a lack of inspiration lately, I have received all kinds of support. Some came in the form of comments or emails or calls from friends (all very much appreciated). Others came by way of example.

Case in point. #timesup #oprahOMG #metoo

At the Golden Globes Sunday night, Oprah gave one of the most electrifying and inspiring speeches I’ve heard in a long time (in my opinion, anyway).

Even though she was addressing the gender inequality in Hollywood, and basically all industries, the essence of her speech, and of the TimesUp and MeToo movements, is all about finding our own voice. Speaking up. Leaning in. Getting on with it.

In the crazy clatter of these complicated times, and with the fears and insecurities that hold us all back in different ways, each of us – women and men – must find and express ourselves in the authentic, true-to-oneself way that only we can do. Especially as we get older when we have so much to share. I believe it is our imperative, our obligation, to step up, find our way, and show ourselves and others a better way.

All of that got me thinking. Maybe this case of low-inspiration that I’m experiencing is merely a cover for not feeling or following my own voice. Perhaps that’s the path to finding the inspiration that will guide me.

“If you can see your path laid out in front of you step by step, you know it’s not your path. Your own path is the one you make with every step you take. That’s why it’s your path.”  Joseph Campbell

OK, there’s a little tingle. I’m feeling something. Times up!

Take a step . . . just take a step, and then another, and another . . . and . . . you get the point. I don’t have to figure it all out now, I don’t have to know what the path is exactly, I just have to start.

I can do that.

Speaking of getting started, one of the emails of support that I received last week was from a dear friend (thank you, Peter) who offered a great suggestion to help me get unstuck.

It seems my friend had another friend who had “stepped off “ her career years ago, and with all the sudden free time she then had, she decided to tackle it head on. She and a buddy decided to do something new, something they’d never done before, every single week for a year. A year! 52 things!

OK, I’ll admit I’m not ready to take on the weekly game, but once a month sounds doable – and fun – to me. If I can manage more than that, I will.

By the way, I’m open to ideas on what some of these things could be, so if you have any, send them my way, please. Nothing crazy now – I’m not jumping out of an airplane or off a mountaintop, just so you know.

I’ve come up with a few simple ideas – one of which is “throwing clay.” My husband has resumed his interest in pottery/ceramics and goes to a studio to throw said clay every week. He said I could come with him one day and he’d show me how to do it. Sounds like fun. So, I’m in.

The other thought was that I could take a cake-decorating class. Now, I have absolutely no interest in decorating cakes (eating them, yes, decorating – not so much), but maybe that’s the point. Trying something new, something different than I would typically gravitate to might stimulate the inspiration pot that I’m trying to smoke . . . er . . . stir (just a joke given California’s new legalized status).

Other things might be:

  • Only use public transportation for a full day.
  • Take a sound-healing and/or aromatherapy class at my yoga studio.
  • Staff a Voter Registration booth in my local area.
  • Take a night hike, led by a park ranger.

So now I have some things in mind to get me started, and I’m reading a lot of inspiring material, talking to inspiring people and generally feeling a whole lot better. And I can see things (inspiration) beginning to take shape already.

Wish me luck. Better yet –  join me in the “something new every month” adventure. There’s nothing to lose, and lots of inspiration to be gained.

Because . . . Times up!

Till next time,

Judy

12 Comments

  1. Dona sabolick
    January 13, 2018 / 6:50 am

    This is so great. I’m so thankful to have you as an inspiration. I want to be a part of your monthly train as you travel through new ventures. Hopefully we can come up with something we can do together that will be fun and adventurous. I would encourage you to think about writing a book. You’re such a gifted writer! ❤️

    • Judy McLane
      Author
      January 18, 2018 / 2:38 pm

      We’ve done so many crazy things together over the years, why not do some more at this age! xxx

  2. Laurel Tucker
    January 13, 2018 / 10:21 am

    Now you’ve got me even more excited about eventually retiring. Thanks Judy, you inspirational thing, you!

    • Judy McLane
      Author
      January 18, 2018 / 2:37 pm

      You’re going to love it someday, dear one.

  3. Joy
    January 13, 2018 / 11:38 am

    👍🏻

  4. Lauren
    January 13, 2018 / 5:20 pm

    I want to do the cake decorating class with you!! Another fun thing for you, me and Mom would be a paint night!!

  5. Terry Devine
    January 14, 2018 / 8:14 am

    As you so often do, you’ve hit the nail that’s my head! 🙃 As I contemplate jumping from one ship to another, I wonder where that ship would head. Trying to imagine the course it would or should take is limited by what I already know and do, but sailing into an unknown adventure every week (or month) is exciting!
    Thank you Judy, and keep on blogging. ❤️

    • Judy McLane
      Author
      January 18, 2018 / 2:36 pm

      Thank you, Terry. I have no doubt that when you decide on the next ship, you’ll make the leap with grace and creativity. And you’ll wonder what took you so long!

  6. January 14, 2018 / 4:06 pm

    Judy,

    I love your crow in jewelry logo. Next week, I’m going to brunch followed by
    pot shopping with a girlfriend. I’m looking for some very weak MJ that will not
    put me into a catatonic state. I just want to giggle.

    I love your blog.

    • Judy McLane
      Author
      January 18, 2018 / 2:34 pm

      LOL! Good luck!

  7. January 14, 2018 / 4:10 pm

    Another idea: Buy an outfit that is totally not the typical you. Pick another you and dress her to the hilt.
    Let the other you shine.

    • Judy McLane
      Author
      January 18, 2018 / 2:34 pm

      LOVE this idea, Tina. I’m going to do it! Thanks.

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